well that was childish!

My husband and I recently had a falling out with our neighbor and stopped speaking to them.

I went to check the mail today and I saw that my name tag had been taken off my mailbox. The post office will not deliver mail to a box with no name tag when you live in an apartment building.

It was there when I checked the mail yesterday. I went to check the mail today and I saw that my name tag is gone. I looked at the floor to see if it had just fallen down but it wasn’t there.

That let me know someone intentionally took it and since everyone else’s name tags were still up and my neighbors are the only ones we’ve had a falling out with it was obvious that it was them. Now to clarify, I have lots of neighbors but the only ones we’re having problems with are on the same floor and live right next door to me.

I have never seen such childish behavior from an adult. Taking my name tag off my mailbox isn’t exactly going to cause me that much of an inconvenience. It’s takes 2 seconds to make a new one and put it on the mail box.

The one my husband and I have a problem with is a 38 or 39 yr old man who lives with his mother, is a known drug addict, and a known pedophile. We tolerated him because his mother is a nice lady. We’ve never had any problems with her. It’s her creepy ass son we don’t like.

I definitely need to move just to get away from the drama. This place wasn’t great to begin with but when these people moved in this past summer, the building went to shit. People’s packages are getting stolen, there is constant noise, this guy gets drunk and throws spaghetti all over the hall way.

Sometimes he comes out in the hall way crawling around with a knife in his hand, other times he comes out in the hall way just screaming about random shit and everyone ignores him.

Again, the stunt with the mailbox, that was just comical. Really? did he really think that was gonna piss me off? Either he isn’t too worried about whether he pisses me off or not or he greatly over estimated his ability to piss me off.

Like I said earlier in this post it takes 2 seconds to make a new name tag and put it on the mail box. It’s good for a laugh and that’s about it.

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I’ve been told not to watch the top girls to get ideas…

Another cam girl told me not to watch the top girls on cam sites to get ideas. I asked why? she said because they are all a size zero and get huge tips for doing very little.

I was watching a girl I consider to be a top girl to get ideas. I noticed she has 65,000 chaturbate followers. I know she didn’t start out with 65,000. She had to start from zero like the rest of us.

She does a whole lot in her shows. Yes she is a size zero, but she is fun and entertaining. She keeps her room fun and exciting. She engages members in her room. She clearly enjoys what she’s doing.

She does do some things that I can’t do but other than that it’s just a fun room to be in. She is a cam girl who has EARNED being a top girl. She’s always happy, always smiling, very active, and all around fun to watch.

She is confident but not cocky, she is sweet but doesn’t pay attention to bullshit. She focuses on her customers, on her show, and doesn’t worry about what another model does in her room.

That to me is a very good example of how to run my business as a cam girl. I don’t want to copy her entire show, I just want to keep my room fun and engage my customers. She is a good one to watch to get a few ideas.

I wanted to give a shout out to deaf angel for being such a great cam girl and such a great example.

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Don’t trash other models

I had a conversation with a cam customer last night who was pretty upset that one model he chats with was trashing another model he chats with. I am not revealing his handle for privacy reasons.

This customer did not like hearing one model trash another period. It bothered him even more that she was being so public about it.

Maybe she’s really young and hasn’t learned that lesson yet, maybe she’s closer to my age and hasn’t learned that lesson yet. I don’t know her so I really can’t say. All I know is that the gentleman I talked to was not very happy with the situation.

Ladies, when you trash another model you will piss off at least some of your customers. You will definitely make them curious about the model you’re trashing. They will wonder why you hate her so much and go see what she’s all about.

What if they like her shows better? in that case you have successfully promoted her, driven traffic to her room, and trashed your own business. Customers don’t come to our chats to hear a bunch of catty bullshit.

Here’s how I handle it when I get jealous of a model who makes more money than me, I watch her to see what she’s doing differently. I try to incorporate the parts I would be comfortable with into my own shows but still do my own thing so my show is my own.

Customers chat with multiple models because they like a little variety so you definitely don’t want to copy someone else’s entire show. It’s definitely ok to watch them so you can get a few ideas, maybe do some of the same things but not all of them. Customers don’t want the exact same show in every room they visit.

The best way to keep your customers is to not trash other models. Keep your mouth shut. You can secretly hate another model all you want but don’t say it on cam for all your customers to hear.

Know that your customers are going to chat with other models too. Know that you do not own the customers and they have every right to chat with any model they choose. Know that when you run your mouth about another model you risk driving her business up and your own business down.

Jealousy is not an attractive quality. If you have no reason to hate a model other than she is prettier than you, or she is making more money than you, keep your mouth shut! watch her to see what she’s doing differently.

What ever you do don’t trash the girl. You will only end up making yourself look bad and you will lose business because of it.

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you guys don’t know what you’re missing

as some of you know I finally came back to work on cam after being gone for 11 months. I found it is impossible to reach a single goal where I used to make goal 1-4 times in a shift sometimes more if I wasn’t too tired.

The kind of shows I do are not even close to what you guys have seen in the week since I returned to cam. I like to get my dildo and vibrator out, grab the lube if needed, and really get busy if you know what I mean.

Baby oil, this is new for me. I do enjoy rubbing baby oil on my skin during shows. There is an added benefit of it being a great moisturizer but that’s beside the point. I think that could really add to my shows.

If I never hit a goal I can’t put on one of these shows. Maybe I should log on earlier in the evening, maybe I should take Tuesday nights off, who knows. I’ll try some different things and see what works for me.

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If you want to see more of this then come see me on cam tomorrow night http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/dT8X/mGlih/?track=default&room=autumn_storm I’ll post it on twitter when I decide on the time. I’m going to aim for 9:00 pm EST

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computer issues and raffles

I was online last night for the first in 11 months. I had some pretty annoying computer issues. It kept overheating and shutting down. I was so frustrated after the fifth time that I just ran a raffle instead.

I deleted a couple of programs from my computer that I don’t use or need. I hope that will help with the crashing. I’m going to try to cam again tonight. If my computer over heats and shuts down repeatedly again I will run another raffle and this time the prize will be chat time on google hang outs where we can video chat.

I can do a show there hopefully with out the computer over heating but I may need to allow it up to 30 minutes to cool off before I begin the show which I can easily do during the course of the raffle.

There can be up to 5 winners for this raffle should it become necessary to do it. The entry fee for this raffle will be 2 tokens for each entry. The minimum number of entries to give you a shot at winning is 1. You may purchase more than one entry if you like but to have the opportunity to have your handle drawn in the raffle you only NEED one.

If your name is drawn, I will put you on the raffle winners list, remove all entries with your name on them and draw another name. I will do this until I have my maximum number of winners which is 5. Then I will announce the winners on twitter, DM the winners my google email address (gmail) and the winners must request permission to chat which will be granted.

if you don’t have the plug in/software to allow a video call via google hang outs then google will require you to install it and will give step by step instructions. from there we can do the video calls and hopefully if all goes well we can have an awesome chat and show.

I am aware that my show can possibly be recorded. If you wish to do this please ask me first. I don’t mind once in a while but I don’t want every show to be recorded, If you intend to upload a recorded show to a website please ask me first and let me know which one so I can check it out and let you know if I’m ok with it.

I don’t mind a few now and then as long as you ask me first, make sure that my cam link (s) are included somewhere in the description, and I know which sites they are being uploaded to.  It’s actually a good marketing strategy.

It’s not piracy if I give you written consent via email or any other means. Just make sure you have my consent in writing. Email would be the most efficient means of obtaining consent.

http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/dT8X/mGlih/?track=default&room=autumn_storm come hang out with me tonight, lets hope my computer isn’t a complete pain in the ass again, and lets have some fun. You’ll notice that I’m pretty laid back and easy going.

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Time to enjoy life

I’m getting back on cam tomorrow night and I’m looking forward to it. It will be the first time I’ve been on cam in 11 months.

I’ve allowed too many things to hold me back for far too long. I’ve finally reached the point where I’ve gotten over a lot of the anxiety over a scar and another uncomfortable blemish. I’m human, I have flaws, I’m not perfect.

I’m at a point in my life where I no longer have any room in my life for negativity. I want to focus only on positive things and enjoy life from here on out instead of worrying about everything all the time.

Believe it or not the way you think affects your life. If you think positive you will have more positive things happen in your life. If you constantly think negative then you will see more negativity in your life.

I’m choosing to focus on the positive from now on. That doesn’t mean I won’t have a bad day now and then but when I do there is always a silver lining and I will find it.

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time to buy new bras and panties

I just went through my underwear drawer and it looks like it’s time to throw some stuff out and buy new stuff. Some of them have small holes which means I will never wear them again. It’s time to throw them out when they have holes.

I found some that have what appear to be weak spots which is where the material is thinning and will soon have a hole. It’s time to throw those out and buy some new ones.

I do still have some that are a little newer and are in good shape but I definitely think I need to go shopping. Not only is this something I need to do, but it’s something that is also fun for me. A girl can never have too many bra and panty sets.

I’ve decided that with the first pay check I get after going back on cam I’m going shopping. I’m hoping to be able to spend about 300.00 when I go shopping. This means I need to make around 1000.00 on cam to be able to pay the bills and shop.

I’m not counting on making that much right away so I may only be able to spend 100-150.00 when I go shopping. I’m fine with that too. I just really need to get some new stuff.

When I go shopping I’ll have pictures taken in the new bra and panty sets and in the tank tops. Some of them anyway, and I’ll post them on twitter and maybe here too.

My first goal is to make 4000 tokens which is equal to 200.00 when I get paid. That won’t be a nightly goal but it will be a first night’s goal. It’s ok if I don’t reach it but I would like to try and see and how close I get.

I will definitely do some password protected shows because I think it’s only fair that the customers who contribute should be the only ones who watch some of those shows. I may do a few out in the open too but I’ll make sure that my paying customers at least get some shows where only they get to see.

If I make enough over and above my goal for the entire pay period I may consider buying a stripper pole to install in my room for cam shows. I know some of you would really like that. It will also help keep me up and moving around more.

My goal with my shows is to please my customers and have fun while doing it and making money at the same time. The added bonus is I’ll get plenty of exercise that will help keep me in good shape lol.

look for me tomorrow night! http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/LQps/mGlih/?track=default&room=autumn_storm  that’s a direct link to my room. I’ll be on around 10:30PM eastern time. Keep in mind I do not have a stripper pole yet!

I hope to see lots of familiar people there as well as some new ones! I’m definitely looking forward to it!

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twitter followers

I keep seeing things on twitter saying re tweet this and follow to gain a certain number of followers. I’m sure that may work for people who want followers in general. I how ever prefer to have targeted traffic.

I want people to follow me because they like what I tweet. I want people to like my content and be interested in what I have to say. Those are what I call quality followers. I tweet mostly about things that are adult in nature.

I don’t want the wrong age group following me. I want people who are at least 18 yrs old and interested in the content I offer. These people are my target audience. I like to offer quality content to those who follow me on twitter.

I may start adding pics to my blog occasionally. I think those who actually read through my posts deserve a treat every now and then. Typically those same pictures will be on twitter though.

Re tweeting and following the people who promise to get you a certain number of twitter followers does not guarantee that all of those followers will be interested in the content you post. If those twitter followers don’t like your content they will unfollow you, may report your account, they could possibly get your account suspended.

The best way to get twitter followers who are interested in what you put out there is to tweet about it, follow people who are tweeting similar things. For example, if you’re a cam girl you should follow other cam girls, maybe follow a few of the people who follow them. Some of them will follow you back. Tweet a few sexy pictures that are seductive but keep you genitals covered up. You don’t want to give away too much.

Tweet your cam links, tweet updates about your shows, when you plan to be on, maybe a picture now and then just before going on cam and then a few pictures when you get off cam after your shift. This will get people interested and ready to watch you during your next shift.

Like I said in my previous post you need to be comfortable on cam. If a customer asks you to do something you don’t feel comfortable with it’s ok to politely decline. If a customer asks you for something that is totally illegal it’s ok to let them know that you will never be comfortable doing that, it’s illegal, and you don’t appreciate being asked to break the law.

You can’t focus on what other models do in their rooms. You can watch them from time to time to get ideas but you should never completely copy cat their show. You should be yourself on cam and just have fun with it. Some customers may come into your chat and say “well this model does this” you can’t focus on what that model is doing. That customer could be lying to get you to do something he wants.

Focus on your own show. Don’t sit there like a bump on a log. The customers get bored with that pretty fast. Get up and move around, try to be happy and smiling on cam, when a customer tips it can’t hurt to say thank you.

Don’t worry about what other models charge for their shows or if they do it in free chat or do a password protected show on chaturbate or just insist on private. You should charge the price you want to charge and if it works for you great if it doesn’t try playing around with your prices a little bit to find what will work best for you.

Don’t forget to promote yourself. As I mentioned with posting your pictures on twitter and your cam links this is one way to promote yourself.  You get more quality followers and better traffic from twitter this way. Quality is better than quantity. You can build a huge following on twitter and your cam site but it will take time. You definitely want more quality followers than a huge quantity of them who won’t spend a dime in your chat.

Don’t go on cam tired. Customers will not stay in your room if you’re obviously tired. They will move on to another lady who looks more energetic and happy. If you have dark circles like I do, it’s a good idea to use some concealer. Dark circles will make you look tired even if you’re not.

Try to acknowledge as many customers as you can. Sometimes that acknowledgement is all it takes to get a customer to come back to your chat and spend a few bucks when he has money to spend. I personally don’t kick every guy out that doesn’t have money to spend right that minute. I let them hang around and treat them with respect. They usually come back and spend when they can.

Customers like to be treated like people because they are people. They don’t like to be treated like a dollar sign. As you get to know some of your customers you will start to remember things they say to you, this is a great way to let them know you remember and appreciate them. Doing that small gesture will help keep your customers coming back.

Some of my best customers don’t always have money to spend but they keep me laughing and smiling which helps with the mood in my room. Of course it’s nice when they do have money to spend but it’s not the only thing that matters.

I won’t lie I love to make a nice chunk of change but sometimes there will be shifts where I don’t make shit. You have to take the good with the bad. You might make 100-500 tokens one night on chaturbate or MFC and make 10,000 tokens another night. You never know what you’ll make or when you’ll make it. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. You will always make more when you have fun and enjoy yourself than you will if it is painfully obvious that you are uncomfortable and/or unhappy. This is just from my own personal experience.

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I’m almost ready to come back

I have been making plans to start camming again but it seems like something always gets in the way. Sometimes it’s a family member needing a place to crash for a few days, sometimes it’s a new roommate that I just can’t get comfortable with enough to cam with them in the house, and most recently it was a nasty chest cold that just doesn’t want to go away.

I’m finally feeling better. I still have a slight cough but it doesn’t hurt anymore. I haven’t had a fever in a while now so I should be ready to come back online soon. I’m thinking I should be ready in the next 2 or 3 days.

I’m looking forward to getting back on cam and rebuilding my customer base. I know a lot of them went away because I haven’t been on in such a long time. Here is a direct link to my chat room.  http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/LQps/mGlih/?track=default&room=autumn_storm  You can find me here when I come back online.

I hope to be able to make some money but the main thing is just to have fun. Obviously if I’m nervous or uncomfortable and not having fun the customers can tell and they will go elsewhere. I don’t blame them. If the shoe was on the other foot I wouldn’t want to watch a girl who looked like she was afraid of the camera or looked like she was bored or not having fun.

I’ll definitely tweet about it the day I go back on cam. If you follow me on twitter you will get updates. I’m already thinking about what I’m going to wear on cam. I’m thinking the lingerie is just a little over the top.

I always seem to do better on cam when I’m dressed comfortably and lets face it lingerie is usually not that comfortable. It’s itchy to say the least. Lingerie is actually a pain in the ass to put on and take off.

I prefer a bra and panties with a tank top. Maybe one night I’ll be in bra and panties only, another night I could wear a tank top with a bra and thong. As long as I’m comfortable and having fun that’s the important thing.

I definitely need to work out my cam schedule so I know when to tell everyone I’ll be online. If I plan and tweet to catch me at 7 pm and I don’t get on until 10 pm I think some customers will be wondering what the fuck was going on.

I was just thinking, I tweeted about a bath video a while back, I need to go buy some bubble bath stuff so I can follow through. I think it’ll be fun to make the make the video.

Look for me on cam on Tuesday night. I definitely will be on cam that night but I haven’t figured out what time yet. I will update on twitter as soon as I decide on a time. In the mean time don’t forget to check out my pics and videos  on chaturbate.

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attitudes towards camgirls

I have noticed a lot of people think negatively about camgirls and the adult industry in general. People look at us as bad and immoral. We are often called whores and sluts. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again I don’t give two fucks what you think of me.

I have seen cops say camgirls are nothing more than whores, I’ve seen the same guys who use the services we provide come in our chat rooms and call us every name in the book. Seriously guys the slut shaming gets real old real fast.

If you’re going to come into our chat rooms and start slut shaming you should probably consider how it makes you look. If you’re so against it then why are you even in out chat to begin with? why do you have an account on these sites? somebody looks a lot like a hypocrite!

We act like sluts on cam it’s part of the fantasy we sell. That doesn’t mean we’re sluts in real life. The truth is you don’t know us. You don’t know what goes on in our personal lives when we’re off cam.

Love us or hate us we’re still us, we’re still going to be on cam, we’re still not going to care what you think and we’re still not going to give you the time of day if you come into our chat rooms being an asshole.

If you come into my chat being rude and disrespectful I will just kick you out. Some ladies might tolerate your bullshit but I won’t. I will not put up with a customer with a bad attitude. I won’t tolerate rude customers and disrespectful comments. I’ll just give you the boot.

Webcam models are not whores. We provide a service online. We don’t meet in person, we don’t pass along diseases, we don’t spread our legs for every guy that shows us a little attention. We do what we do during our cam shows and when we’re off cam we relax and do our own thing.

We have to run errands, we have to grocery shop, we have to pay bills, we spend time with friends and family, sometimes we like to go shopping or go out to eat. We are just like any other person out there.

Some of us do this strictly as a job, some of us do this as a hobby and the added income from it is just a bonus. We don’t bash you for your job or your hobbies. I don’t think we’re asking too much to be treated with the same respect we give you. For those of you who think it’s ok to come into our chat rooms acting like a complete jackass well the ban button is a very handy tool.

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